No matter the situation, you are the only one who can change your life. The process of change begins the very moment you think about something differently. Instead of:
- Wishing things were different – be at peace with where you are, as your beginning.
- Assigning blame to others – understand the decisions you make every day impact outcomes.
- Reacting – pause and be conscious of what kind of energy you are directing at something or someone.
If life seems to have a recurring pattern that keeps landing you in the same negative situation, ask yourself if your typical responses are getting you anywhere besides in an emotional rut? You have the choice to respond differently. Learn to choose differently with small actions, and the result will be small shifts in response.
“They are the weakest, however strong, who have no faith in themselves or their own powers.” Christian Bovee